As I get older, I'm growing tired of trying to "train" opponents in what I want in a private wrestling match. So here's what turns me on: I'm only interested in the role play of a pro-style wrestling match in my ring. That means building up the "tension" of the fight while standing in opposing corners. We wear speedos, boots, and kneepads. We begin the match by circling along the ropes then coming together in a lock-up. One wrestler pulls the other into a head lock (or full nelson, or hammerlock, etc.) then forces him to the ropes or corner to work him over with fake belly punches and/or a fake choke. Then it ends up on the mat with whatever holds are erotic, which means lots of fondling of bulges. There's no actual pain or hard struggling. Like in a pro-style match, one wrestler is held while the other acts out that he's in pain or feebly tries to escape. The roles change as the match goes on with both guys being the dominant one. Rounds can end in pins or a fake knockout. If you don't know the many ways to apply a head scissor (my favorite hold) or any of the following holds then look elsewhere. Those include body scissors, camel clutch, bow and arrow, leg lock, grapevine pin, schoolboy pin, face sitting, etc. That's what I'm looking for. If guys don't know how to do these things then I'm not interested. I'm also going to be more careful about how my opponent looks in their gear. If your profile doesn't have a full body shot in gear (including your face) then I'm not interested. I'm a nice guy and apologize for getting more specific in what I'll accept in a match but I'm growing tired of trying to train guys who don't really appreciate the eroticism of a great pro-style wrestling match. Getting hard and staying hard throughout is ALL I care about :) Thanks! ***FYI ... If you're not serious about actually meeting up for a match, I'm not interested in chatting with you.